Friday, April 2, 2010

Why I write this blog

Before I married I did for many years work as prostitute in Indonesia, my home country.
My husband know of my past life and he encourage me to write about it.
I only brave to talk and share as I can remain anonymous.
I am not proud that I was prostitute before and I dont want my family and extended family ever to know of my past life.

I want to share my experience and that of my friends in the same sex industry in Indonesia so people, women and men who interested to help or understand the sex industry in Indonesia.
There are many problems, 90% of my friends I knew did not enter the industry by choice but had to due to circumstances they lived in.

Major problems are HIV and AIDS, not so bad as in some other countries but on raise as most customers, Indonesian men, dont want to use condom during sex.
They say it feel better without condom and are not educated enought to understand the risk of sexualy transmitted diseases.
Also if you are working as prostitute or "escort" there you dont have any rights, if you are abused and go to complain to police for example they dont take you seriously because you are only a whore.
I did become prostitute not by decission but it just happened that way.
In Indonesian language, Bahasa Indonesia, prostitute is called:
Pelacur, Lonte, Perek, Pecun, Bispak, P.S.K. (pekerja seks komersial) or Wanita Tuna Susila.
They all not nice name to be called, similar to:
Whore, Escort, Slut, Courtesan, Tart in English.
I did have so many experience and my colleague in work also with whom I lived.
I write more later when I have time.

2 comments:

  1. I was looking for info on one particular Indonesian woman when I found your blog. I praise you for what you do. God has forgiven you.

    What I do not admire is that an immoral woman is possibly fleecing my brother of his money. She is out the whole day while my brother is at work. If you know her, please pass her info to me. THANK YOU!

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  2. what is mean "immoral woman"
    no, I dont think I know her. there is so many women in this country working as prostitute

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